Pride Abounds in North Jersey

When Gabriella’s then-employer told her they wanted her to move back from London to work in the New York office, we started scoping around for a place to call home.  We had no experience being parents in or around New… Read morePride Abounds in North Jersey

Gay Vs. Straight: The Reveal

Thank you friends and perverted voyeurs for following Nicole and me in our on-going series, Gay Vs. Straight.  We bring you our final edition after weeks of illusions and trickery, Gay Vs. Straight:  The Reveal.  Who is Chris?  Who is Pat?  Did their… Read moreGay Vs. Straight: The Reveal

Gay Vs. Straight: The Wife Round

In a move sure to be heralded by NPR and FOX alike as “dumb,” Nicole of Ninja Mom Blog and myself give you the 2nd in a four part series: Gay vs. Straight! Deborah’s an all-around funny lady, smart-ass and “fake”-married lesbian. Nicole… Read moreGay Vs. Straight: The Wife Round

Gay Vs. Straight: The Mommy Round

In a move sure to be heralded by NPR and FOX alike as “dumb,” Nicole of Ninja Mom Blog and myself give you the 2nd in a four part series: Gay vs. Straight! Deborah’s an all-around funny lady, smart-ass and “fake”-married lesbian. Nicole… Read moreGay Vs. Straight: The Mommy Round

Gay Vs. Straight: The Lady Round

In a move sure to be heralded by NPR and FOX alike as “dumb,” Nicole of Ninja Mom Blog and myself give you the four part series: Gay vs. Straight! Deborah’s an all-around funny lady, smart-ass and “fake”-married lesbian. Nicole is… Read moreGay Vs. Straight: The Lady Round

Until Uncivil Union

Last week was the 6th anniversary of our Civil Union.  Gabriella did not remember.  I remembered because I got an anniversary card from my supportive Aunt L.  Also,  it’s a recurring date in iCal along with the anniversary of our… Read moreUntil Uncivil Union

All Aboard the Diversity Love Boat

This past Saturday, we gathered our box full-o-rainbows and made our way to Levi’s elementary school to work the Gay Family Table at the annual Diversity Fair for the 3rd consecutive year. This is the event where we celebrate the… Read moreAll Aboard the Diversity Love Boat

National Coming Out Day – like it or lump it

It’s National Coming Out Day!  You may commence with your cheers, applause and wootage.  I never forget this day because I never stop coming out.  While other people may find the act of coming out to be liberating and fun,… Read moreNational Coming Out Day – like it or lump it

Prop 8 was a gay plot

Throw millions of dollars into a campaign to ban equal rights, and a spotlight shines on bigotry, hatred and the need for federal protection of our nation’s individuals.  The good news is the spotlight is very, very bright.  It’s a… Read moreProp 8 was a gay plot

Gay thoughts for 2012

Sunday’s Style section of the New York Times. January 1 2012. One of the cover articles. Gay Marriage Shadowed by AIDS. The article focuses on our bittersweet victory in New York to extend state marriage to like-gendered couples. A note… Read moreGay thoughts for 2012